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Be an Agent For Change

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BY KATHY MCDONALD 

This weekend has truly been edifying for me and I would like to share some of the messages that resonated with me. I just wish that more parents from the community had the privilege to be present when these powerful messages were being delivered. I attend the United Achiever’s Club Parent Symposium, The Holy Remnant Apostolic Church Music in the House, as well as The Congress of Black Women Mississauga and Area Scholarship Awards and Dinner. (For the record we have some incredible, talented, bright and goal oriented young people in our community) WOW. I was so excited about all the information that I had accessed that I feel compelled to share. Hopefully by the end of this article you will be on your way to being a better student or a better parent by understanding how: not procrastinating, self-improvement and developing a growth mind set can lead to a better you.

It was an honor to have a front row seat and hear Noel Waldron the president of My Dreams Work break down the how to and the why of procrastination. In simple layman terms procrastination is a thief. It robs us of what can potentially be fulfilling and positively enhance our life. The root of procrastination is FEAR. I witnessed him coach people who were procrastinating about important life changing opportunities. The end result is the fear of criticism and rejection, even the fear of success held people back from taking the next step to realizing a dream. Mr. Waldron made a life altering statement for me “The result is not the cause it is the effect”. So the lifestyle we live is the result of our choices. The education we have can alter the result and the choices we make. So it is important to get educated, to get financially literate and to get proactive in living a deliberate life.

Do not wait another day to make the change. Today is as good a time as any. Start making the necessary steps and investments to effect the change you want to see. In the area of education, make the deposit today. First realize as Ms. Thando Hyman suggests we need to model the three habits of successful people: discipline, routine and structure. When you examine the habits of most successful people they are committed and disciplined to their cause or idea. There is just no way around it. Michael Jordan was fastidious when it came to practicing basketball. He came early and left late. So if we truly want to excel at mathematics or sciences we simply have to practice. When you realistically look at the odds of making it in the NBA versus getting a solid education I would not but all my eggs into the former basket. The bottom line is that an education will never decay and can never be taken away from you. I am by no means saying to students do not aspire to play in the NBA. What I am saying is make sure you get your education also.  Developing a routine is crucial. If we journey through life in a haphazard manner we will get ad hoc results. Invariably we will forget or forego remarkable opportunities. It is easier to accomplish our goals when we have structure. An established routine which is purposeful should include provision for fitness, mental health, spiritual growth and academia.

Resiliency is a must because as Tyler Perry once said “Never lose sight of your goal”. He was homeless, faced rejection numerous times and took seven years before he was an “overnight success”. Basically just hang in there. Far too many times we alter our dreams or just plain old quit. We need to have realistic expectations. The so called overnight success that we often fantasize about was actually years in the making.

Rose Streete delivered a heart wrenching awe-inspiring message that every female needs to hear. If a little Black girl from Hog Town can go from being divorced, unemployed and homeless (all basically at the same time), to receiving the peace medallion and being an agent for change; someone that is recognized for her role in community building and making one of the roughest neighborhoods in Peel become a desirable community then what is stopping us from fulfilling our purpose on earth. Ms. Streete is resiliency personified. She is proof that one’s station in life does not determine one’s outcome. She spoke about the importance of community building. I say an Amen to that. I am also a firm believer in community building. I know my children will be okay but they need people to marry. So if only for this selfish reason we need to build up our community.

The last absolutely profound piece of advice I received this weekend was: Improve yourself so that you can be better role models for your children. As a lifelong learner I am always searching for ways to improve myself, improve my family and improve my community. We must never grow complacent. As Justice McLeod often says “This is not the season for accolades”. There is a lot of work still left to do. So to the achievers out there, kudos later. Get busy “more wok deh yah” There is more work to be done. To the underachievers, enough with the procrastination, enough with the fear…. just do it. What is your fear? Is it that you are greater that your imagination?

As an agent of change, there are pitfalls being a change maker but the pitfall of doing nothing is way more dangerous. Remember one’s station in life does not determine your outcome. Armed with a good education, discipline, structure and a tenacious spirit coupled with a routine; the sky is the limit. Dream big and work twice as hard to make your dream a reality. Don’t live in an unfulfilled world full of compromise and complacency. Be a trailblazer, an agent for change. So Walk Good, Belle Marché.

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Understanding the multiple layers involved in navigating education spaces Parents of Black Children launch Navigating the Education System

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BY PAUL JUNOR

The work of the advocacy group Parents of Black Children (PoBC) has made a significant and revolutionary difference by bringing issues to the forefront that help Black families at all levels.

For over two years now, it has organized events, workshops and initiatives that have provided important information to the Black community to bring empowerment, knowledge and deep understanding of the multiple layers of the complex dynamics involved in navigating education spaces.

There are five core principles that underlie PoBC understanding of racism:

  1. Racialization
  2. Racism is about power
  3. Critical racial theory
  4. Our stories matter
  5. Racism is founded on White supremacy

On Tuesday, November 23rd, 2021, they launched the document Navigating the Education System,” which was a very empowering, enriching and inspiring tool for diverse Black families. Kearie Daniels, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author of the document, moderated the launch. Furthermore, Claudette Rutherford, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author gave an extensive presentation of the details of the document, sharing useful insights, practical knowledge and interesting information.

PoBC shared a pdf document subsequent to the launch, which provided additional details in a fifty-three-page package. It contained relevant, contextual and vital resources. PoBC’s Advocacy Team supported the document, which includes Charline Grant and Xavier McLaughin.

In the introduction to the document the mission of PoBC is to “Provide support to parents of Black children across Canada and the United States. We advocate and work towards change and concrete action in our education system and adjacent systems such child welfare and the justice system.”

The launch of this vital document is a culmination of all the advocacy and activist work that PoBC has been extensively involved in. It serves to remind members of the Black community that there are resources, tools and supports available to ensure that Black children are able to thrive academically, excel mentally and flourish intellectually in spaces that may not be welcoming to their presence.

The document states that the navigate guide is “Geared towards families in Ontario, but the information can be applied to any jurisdiction where there are Black children and families.”

The document “Table of Contents” is useful and helpful. There is vital information on:

  • School board terms you need to know
  • Education organization you need to know in Ontario
  • Black families and the Child Welfare System
  • Black families and the education system
  • Black students and Individual Education Plans (IEPs)
  • Black students in High School.
  • Developmental delays in learning exceptionalities
  • Supporting students with learning exceptionalities
  • Selecting a school system
  • System abuse

PoBC presented a webinar on “System Abuse”. The document states,

“The system is not neutral. These systems were designed as part of a colonial framework that must be dismantled.” Furthermore, the document “Serves as a means to demystify the pitfalls within the education system and light a path towards a decolonized education system.”

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Toronto prepares families for COVID-19 vaccination of children

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BY PAUL JUNOR

There have been concerns, fears and anxieties as parents, caregivers and guardians anticipate the possibility of having their children under twelve vaccinated.

The Boston Globe reported on Friday, October 29th, 2021, that the FDA approved the administration of Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine to children between the ages of five to eleven. These children will receive one-third of the dose administered to teens and adults.

The Centres for Disease Control and Prevention met on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2021, in order to finalize details with respect to which children should be vaccinated first. In anticipation of these developments, Team Toronto has initiated a series of outreach and education sessions, as well as town halls in order to inform the Toronto community.

Parents of children between the ages of five to eleven who attend public schools will be receiving an email and an invitation to respond to a survey to “Support vaccine planning.”  This invitation will also be extended to parents whose children attend private independent schools as well. The survey will be administered by Toronto Public Health (TPH) and the City of Toronto VaxTO in order to “Better understand parents’ intent to vaccinate their children, how they would prefer to have their children receive their COVID-19 vaccine, and to obtain critical information on socio-demographic factors such as race and income.”

John Tory, Mayor of Toronto, is optimistic and positive about this development. He states in the press release, “While our work to get 90% of eligible residents vaccinated is continuing, we are also readying for when the vaccine will be available to protect kids five to eleven. We want to hear from parents, so we made sure we designed a vaccination program that works for kids and their families. This is just one more example of the outreach we are doing to prepare for this effort. This work is so important and will help us get kids vaccinated so they have the best protection against COVID-19 and so our schools can be as safe and as open as possible.”

Councillor Joe Cressy, Chair of Toronto’s Board of Health who has been at the forefront of advocating for the vaccination of margnizalied and at-risk communities is supportive of this campaign. He states, “At every stage of our immunization campaign, connecting with people on the ground has been critical to our success. Now, as we prepare for the rollout of vaccines to children aged five to eleven, we’re committed to engaging directly with parents, families, and community leaders to have active conversations about vaccinations for kids.”

In addition, Dr Eileen De Villa, Toronto’s Medical Officer of Health is a strong proponent of this campaign. She states,” When vaccines are approved for use and when we have supply we will ensure that we bring every resource to bear on this critical component of the vaccination campaign.”

The survey will be available as of Sunday, November 7th, 2021. It consists of fifteen questions that will be available online at s.tphsurvey.chkmkt.com in multiple languages. Parents and guardians will receive them from their children’s public school boards. In addition, there will be town halls for specified multilingual communities as well as neighbourhood-based telephone halls to ensure that the public has access to timely, necessary and relevant information for informed decision-making.

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Act as if what you do makes a difference. IT DOES

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BY SABRINA S. – 12 YEARS OLD

The school year is coming to an end, I’m sure that this year was hectic for everyone. Last year, we had a pandemic strike in the middle of the year and the world was sent into lockdown.

We didn’t get to go to school for the rest of the year.

Many students got to choose if they wanted to do school in-person or online, I chose online since I didn’t feel safe.

First day of school was very weird, most people don’t turn their cameras on, don’t even get me started on the wifi issues. I would lag out of the google meet many times and miss most of the instructions on the assignment. That is when friends come in handy, though I don’t get to see my friends that often, we still connect with some online games and phone calls through snap chat.

I don’t know where the time went, it just flew by. Last month was September and suddenly, I feel like we skipped eight months. I only have a week of school left! Because it is the last week of school, I have a lot of homework and final assignments to do but I know I’ll get through them and finish the school year.

I haven’t had time to go outside as well, I’ve been too busy with my assignments.

If my school year was this hectic, imagine the teacher’s year. I’m very grateful for everything my teachers have done for me and my classmates this year, they definitely deserve the three-month summer break. I’m sure my teachers doubted teaching online, but everything went okay and I learned lots.

“No matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets. I’m going to make it!”

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