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Scrolling Away: The hidden dangers of social media addiction

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BY KAHA G.

In today’s digital age, social media has become an integral part of our daily lives. However, it’s crucial to recognize the negative impact it has on us. Over the years, social media usage has skyrocketed, leading to various adverse effects.

Mindless scrolling through endless feeds has turned us into slaves to social media platforms. This habit leads to lost potential, as we waste precious time that could be used more productively. Studies have linked excessive social media use to negative impacts on mental health, including increased depressive symptoms in adolescents.

Our attention span has decreased significantly, as we’ve normalized the idea that if something doesn’t catch our attention within seconds, it’s not worth our time. Major companies like: TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram track our preferences, strategically presenting content that caters to our likes and needs, further diminishing our ability to focus.

Using a website called unplugged.rest, I calculated how many years are wasted based on daily social media usage. For a 15-year-old spending three hours a day on social media, this amounts to eight years of their life wasted. Imagine what could be achieved in eight years.

Social media platforms are designed to be addictive, with algorithms optimized for engagement rather than content quality. This business model relies on our constant attention, trapping us in a cycle of endless scrolling.

Consider this: mindlessly scrolling through social media is like giving away your: time, attention, and energy to strangers who don’t even know you. Every time you scroll, you’re essentially pouring from an empty cup.

The constant consumption of content disconnects us from our true selves, leading to identity crises and irritability towards loved ones. Future generations will likely suffer even more, with shorter attention spans and decreased academic performance due to their dependence on social media, and don’t even get me started with the rise of AI.

To regain control of our lives, we must take conscious steps to reduce screen time and prioritize what truly matters. Remember, on your deathbed, you won’t wish you had spent more time on social media, but rather that you had chased your dreams and spent time with loved ones.

Don’t leave your FATE (Focus, Attention, Time, and Energy) in somebody else’s hands. Take control of your life, be present, and focus on what truly matters. Instead of getting lost in the endless feeds and likes, invest your time in personal growth, learning, and meaningful connections. Read books that spark curiosity, explore hobbies that bring joy, and nurture relationships that uplift you. Remember, your life is a precious gift, use it to create a legacy that truly reflects your values and passions.

P.S. (I got inspired to write this article from a Youtube Channel called Amy Wang, she has great advice, and I like her videos. So, you should check out her content.)

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Protect your children; you truly never know who is watching

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BY KAHA G.

Imagine being born into the trade of being a social media sensation at just four years old, with your mom running your account. Your mom posts sweet and innocent videos like “What I dress my daughter in vs. what grandma does,” and prank videos.

You climb the ladder of success until you’ve attained the title of the third, or fourth most popular four-year-old on TikTok with 17 million followers. Gaining the attention of local news stations, with the story of a single mom starting these videos to save memories now turned into a way to save money, attaining partnerships along the way. However, the fame dies down a bit.

Unfortunately, this is where your life takes a turn, when your mom starts taking video suggestions from viewers and the content becomes extremely suspicious and suggestive to the point where articles are being sent out in concern and worry for you. All this happening without your knowledge.

This is the story of Wren Eleanor, and by the end of this article, you might want to stop posting, or even remove your child from posts ever again.

“Wren.eleanor,” a mom-run TikTok account that started up around 2019-2020, has been facing major controversy over the past couple of years. In the beginning, Jacqueline (the mom) posted content about her child similar to the other mom influencers, but there were only a couple of instances where her videos went viral. However, there was one “shortcut to success,” when a video of Wren was posted showing her bare leg, or her wearing a bikini with the hashtag “bikini model.” While the intention might have been completely pure, this was the start of Jacqueline’s eye raising behaviour.

Her videos began consisting of Wren eating suggestively shaped foods. For example, Jacqueline would post videos of Wren eating pickles, whipped cream, foot-long corn dogs, Costco hot dogs, her taking large bites, food being fed to her in questionable ways, and being pushed to levels of discomfort.

This wasn’t the only change happening; her video thumbnails would be with Wren with an open mouth, a really big food item, or even a flash of her diaper. Even some speculated that these videos were orchestrated in response to being paid for by viewers, as in one of her videos, Wren was chewing a piece of gum and then said, “I swallowed it,” and right after saying “Is that okay?”

Her videos weren’t only attracting views on TikTok, but the number of people saving Wren’s videos using the “Favourite” feature was on the rise as well. It was evident that Wren’s anonymous viewers enjoyed the content so much that watching it once was not enough. For instance, a video of her eating a corn dog got more than 100,000 favourites, and in others it reached over 400,000.

Jacqueline started facing controversy around July 2022, when news outlets began reporting how creepy the content was. They pointed out how her fanbase wasn’t only just mothers and kids, but grown men saying things like, “Hear me out,”She kinda hot,” and “There is no way that baby does not have a boyfriend,” to say what they are going to do to her, if you catch my drift. This wasn’t the only thing concerning the public, but it was the searches associated with her name such as: deep fake, scandalous outfits, pickles, and fair eats.

Lastly, in December 2023, TikTok stopped paying content creators for videos under a minute long, which made up quite a lot of Wren and Jacqueline videos, and people were asking if she was not in it for the money then what she was doing it for? Well, from an investigation by the New York Times into child influencers, parent-run accounts are known to sell: “photos, exclusive chat sessions, and even worn leotards to their fanbase.” If these allegations were true, then this means that Jacqueline isn’t just ignorant, and that she’s purposely exploiting her child to grown men for money.

Overall, I acknowledge that posting your children online should be a safe thing to do. It’s not fair that creeps are tuning in too, but the fact of the matter is that they ARE watching your children, and it is YOUR responsibility to protect your children from these lowlifes.

We all wish the world was a safe place to share whatever cute moments of our children with others, but that’s simply not the kind of place we live in, and it will never be. So please, protect your children from the watchful eyes of people with ill intent, and if you want to keep your children online still, then block, or remove people you don’t know from your followers, and private your account for only close friends and family to see because we truly never know who is watching.

https://www.parents.com/mom-of-tiktok-preschooler-wren-eleanor-facing-backlash-8612986

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“Not in Employment, Education, Or Training!” A lot of young people are struggling to find jobs

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BY KHADIJA KARIM

Recently, there’s been a lot of concern about a group of young people called “NEETs.” NEET stands for “Not in Employment, Education, or Training.” These young adults, usually between 18 and 24 years old, aren’t working, going to school, or learning anything new. About 16% of Americans at this age are NEETs.

This problem isn’t just in the United States. In 2023, around 11.2% of young people aged 15-24 in the U.S. were considered to be NEETs.

This means that a lot of young people are struggling to find jobs or continue their education. The problem of youth unemployment isn’t only in the U.S. In Canada, youth unemployment hit 13.5% in June 2024, the highest since 2014. In China, youth unemployment reached 17.1% in July 2024. Many college graduates can’t find jobs, forcing them to move back home. Similar issues are happening in Africa and South Korea.

There are many reasons why so many people are becoming NEETs. One big reason is weak job networks that means NEETs are not talking to the right people who can help and guide them to find the right jobs for them. Some other people have children, but no access to childcare, making it hard to work. Also, some of these NEETs require childcare, which is not so easily accessible, so it makes it hard for these NEETs to focus on their careers.

Unfortunately, some of these NEETs have disabilities, which stops them from working as jobs are not so open to accommodate people with disabilities. Last but not least transportation also serves as a roadblock towards getting better employment chances.

Many of these youth live in rural areas where job opportunities are often hard to get. They often come from families making less than $50,000 a year. Nearly 70% of these young people have only a high school diploma, and not great education, which makes it even harder to find good jobs. Also, labour jobs such as construction are decreasing at a rapid speed as technology is taking over. Even people with more education are struggling to find jobs because companies are hiring fewer people.

Although the NEETs hands are tied and they are not able to make many changes in the economy, NEETs should try networking more frequently and still work in lower positions as they might pay off in the future. The best thing NEETs can do is gear up against unemployment and fight it head on!

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Why the right backpack matters for your child’s well-being

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BY AMARI SUKHDEO

As summer winds down and the school year approaches, it’s time to think about one of the most crucial aspects of your child’s school gear: their backpack. This seemingly simple item can play a huge role in your child’s comfort and health throughout the year. Dr. Guillaume Corbin, a chiropractor and president of the Association des Chiropraticiens du Québec, offers some eye-opening insights into why choosing the right backpack matters and how to make the best choice.

Imagine your child stepping into school with a backpack that fits perfectly, feels like a breeze, and looks fantastic. It’s not just a dream—choosing the right backpack can make this a reality. Many students, however, face issues with backpacks that are either too heavy or poorly designed. Dr. Corbin notes that a common problem is children wearing their backpacks over just one shoulder. This practice, combined with an overloaded bag, can cause them to lean awkwardly forward or to one side. Over time, this can lead to significant discomfort, including shoulder and neck pain, and even headaches.

The signs of a problematic backpack can be subtle yet significant. If your child often leans forward or sideways while carrying their bag, or if they find themselves constantly adjusting one shoulder to keep the strap from slipping, these could be indicators of a poor fit. Likewise, if your child frequently complains of back, neck, or shoulder pain, or if they have to support the backpack with one hand to alleviate pressure, it’s a strong signal that their backpack needs a reassessment. Additionally, painful red marks on their shoulders, or a bag that bounces against their buttocks as they walk are clear signs that the backpack is either too heavy, or improperly adjusted.

So, how can you ensure that your child’s backpack supports their well-being rather than detracting from it? Dr. Corbin advises focusing on several key features when selecting a backpack. First, opt for a backpack made from lightweight but durable materials. This will ensure that the bag doesn’t add unnecessary weight. Look for backpacks with wide, padded, and adjustable straps to help distribute the weight evenly and prevent shoulder discomfort. A padded back is also crucial for added comfort and support. Additionally, choose a bag with multiple compartments to help distribute the weight more evenly and ensure that the backpack’s size is appropriate—neither too big nor too small.

By paying attention to these details, you can help your child start the school year with a backpack that is not only stylish but also kind to their body. A well-chosen backpack will make the daily trek to school more comfortable and support your child’s health throughout the year.

 

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