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African-Canadian fathers assemble to reframe the discussion on being a “Black Dad”

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BY SIMONE J. SMITH

“Legacy building is important.” Paul Osbourne James (Dad Fest Attendee)

“Thank you for always coming home dad!” This is a statement I have spoken many times to my own father. I cannot remember a time when my father was not active in my life. It is my dad who instilled many of the values that I have right now.

Research continues to suggest that father’s play a significant role in the growth and development of a child. Whether it is a young lady, or a young man, fathers have a strong influence on a child’s school adjustment, social competence and psychological well being (Cooper, 2015).

There seems to be a projected and overwhelming negative image of African fathers. Much of the discussion has centered on the negative impacts of a fathers absence. What is not taken into consideration is that there are some involved, loving, passionate African men, who remain active in their children’s lives, even if they may not be involved romantically with their child’s mother. A great example is a study that was done comparing Caucasian and Latino fathers; it was found that African fathers reported higher levels of engagement in caregiving and play activities (Cooper, 2015).

What is not being discussed is the positive impact African men have on the lives of their children. We as a community must continue to focus on the roles and contributions of African fathers. Now, more than ever, we have to reframe the discussion, and shine a positive light on the involvement and engagement of African fathers across the globe.

I was very happy when Ed Gough (aka Dr. Vibe), invited me to be part of the annual Dad Fest on Saturday, June 20th, at 3:00 pm. It was great experience being a silent participant, because it gave me an opportunity to experience African men from across Canada speaking on fatherhood, and their personal stories of: triumphs, challenges, and life lessons.

“Brothers, too many people die with a bill not a will.” Dr. Vibe (Host, Dad Fest)

 When I clicked on to the Zoom meeting, I was pleasantly greeted with heart-thumping baselines, and familiar tunes that were being spun by the one and only Dj Benjamin DeGraff. That was new for me, and a welcoming surprise. Slowly, I saw men filtering on to the call, but it didn’t feel awkward because everyone was enjoying the music.

There were some quick introductions, and then Dad Fest kicked of with their first panel of guests, which included:

  • Mark Smith (Founding Members of Lions Club)
  • Dalton Higgins (More than a Haircut)
  • Cassius Washington Smith
  • Jermaine Spence
  • Brandon Hey (Black Daddies Club)

This powerful group of panellists shared their expertise, and passion for fathering discussing: what co-parenting looked like during COVID-19, how they were taking care of their mental health and the mental health of their children, managing emotions, and how they were keeping their children engaged during the pandemic.

One item of importance that was shared was the fact that children were not getting enough physical activity. Most recently, The Hospital for Sick Children has launched the Centre for Healthy Active Kids. Their focus is on understanding how nutrition and physical activity impacts a child’s life, and they explore early intervention and prevention strategies that promote healthy, active living (http://www.sickkids.ca/Centre-for-Healthy-Active-Kids/index.html)

After the first panel discussion there was an intermission, which was skilfully utilized to engage fathers in attendance with tips for black families during COVID-19, and Father’s Day poll questions. This gave the fathers a chance to speak for themselves, and express their own specific viewpoint on a selection of questions, and thoughtful insights. I thought I would share the 10 poll questions for our readers to think about:

  • How being a parent is one of the best parts of my life?
  • I put so much into parenting; I don’t have time for myself. (Yes/No)
  • I honestly believe I have all the skills necessary to be a good father.
  • A man can be a good father even if he doesn’t live with his child.
  • Being a father is the most important thing in my life.
  • All children need strong relationships with their father to grow up well.
  • Any man can father a child, but it takes a special person to be a good dad.
  • A stepfather or other man can be just as good a dad as a biological father can be.
  • What is the most important part of being a good father? (financial support, teaching about life, providing direct care, providing love, providing protection, disciplining and being an authority figure)
  • How did you feel when you found out you were going to be a father?

“Being present without the pressures of work schedules has allowed me to connect with my son at a more relaxed pace… And allowed me to be with my daughter as she grows.” Nicholas Barham (Dad Fest Attendee)

After the short intermission, Dwayne Morgan gifted attendees with poetry from his book “Period & other lessons from my daughter.” The poems were well received, and the moderators took all attendees off mute so that they could honour Dwayne with words of encouragement, and with a round of applause.

His poems were a great introduction to the second panel session that included panellists:

  • Keith Hill Jr. (Author & Entrepreneur)
  • Tchaka Adofo (Canadian, Jamaican Born)
  • Jermaine Spence (Community Support Worker)
  • Kofi (Energy Healer, Holistic Health, and Wellness Coach)

In this panel session they discussed: strategies to engage children through education, generational plans that they had in place for their children, the type of values black men should have as fathers, how the community can better support black families at this time, and Afrocentric curriculum ideas that can be found online.

“COVID has been an opportunity to ground with my family and especially my boys. We have all agreed that we love each other.” Rudi Williams

Dad Fest, 2020 was a tremendous success. Even though the attending fathers were not able to meet in person, they focused on discussions that further promoted positive development and reduce existing disparities. The success of the event supports the importance of spaces that provide men with opportunities to openly acknowledge and process the ways in which intergenerational experiences have guided their lives, and how settings of this nature are particularly supportive and therapeutic for African-American males.

Reference

Reframing the discussion on African-American fathers: Implications for positive development of African American boys
https://www.apa.org/pi/families/resources/newsletter/2015/08/african-american-fathers

We, as humans are guaranteed certain things in life: stressors, taxes, bills and death are the first thoughts that pop to mind. It is not uncommon that many people find a hard time dealing with these daily life stressors, and at times will find themselves losing control over their lives. Simone Jennifer Smith’s great passion is using the gifts that have been given to her, to help educate her clients on how to live meaningful lives. The Hear to Help Team consists of powerfully motivated individuals, who like Simone, see that there is a need in this world; a need for real connection. As the founder and Director of Hear 2 Help, Simone leads a team that goes out into the community day to day, servicing families with their educational, legal and mental health needs.Her dedication shows in her Toronto Caribbean newspaper articles, and in her role as a host on the TCN TV Network.

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Urban Alliance on Race Relations celebrates and highlights Racial Justice Award recipients

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BY PAUL JUNOR

It has been almost 40 years since the Urban Alliance on Race Relations (UARR) has been at the forefront of: promoting tolerance, social justice, racial equity and fairness. Since it was formed in 1975, they have celebrated and recognized changemakers in the fight for racial justice in diverse sectors such as: health, labour, government, education, arts, media, environment, and justice.

On Saturday, December 7th, 2024, there was a great turnout at the 2024 Racial Justice Awards Night held at The Estate Banquet & Event Centre in Scarborough. In attendance were many community supporters, civic officials, long-time racial justice warriors, and individuals from diverse ethnic groups.

UARR is grateful for all the sponsors of the Racial Justice Awards Night Celebration. It notes in its email to its supporters on Tuesday, December 3rd, 2024, the importance of its sponsors including:

  • United Food and Commercial Workers (UFCW) of Canada, UFCW, Local 175
  • The International Brotherhood of Electrical Workers (IBEW) Local 353
  • Unite Here! Local 75
  • Toronto & York Region Labour Council
  • Canadian Labour Congress
  • The Coalitions of Black Trade Union (CBTUL)

“Your sponsorship plays a vital role in shining a light on individuals and organizations driving equity, justice, and change in our communities. This celebration is more than an event, it’s a movement. Thanks to your support, we’re: honoring changemakers, amplifying unheard voices, and funding initiatives that break down systemic barriers.”

The categories and names of the awards and recipients were:

Racial Justice in Arts: Hannia Cheng

She is an artist and cultural worker who co-founded Unit 270, a DIY gallery and multi-purpose grassroots community hub in Chinatown Centre.

Racial Justice in Labour: Vanessa Story

She is the founder of the Black Youth York Region and co-founder of the York Communities for Public Education coalition.

Racial Justice in Education: Shannon Simpson

She is Senior Director of Indigenous Initiatives at the University of Toronto.

Racial Justice in Environment: Dr. Ingrid Waldron

She is a Professor and HOPE Chair in Peace and Health in the Global and Peace and Social Justice Program in the Faculty of Humanities at McMaster University.

Urban Alliance of Race Relations Agent of Change Award: Kirk Mark

He is the Equity, Diversity and Inclusive Consultant at KIRK Mark & Associates.

Racial Justice in Media: Amanda Parris

She is an award-winning writer, tv host and producer, and former host of CBC Arts Exhibitionist.

Racial Justice in Health: Camille Orridge

She is former CEO of the Toronto Central Local Health Integration Network (TCLHIN).

Racial Justice in Government: Amira Elghawaby

She is a journalist and human rights advocate who was appointed in January 2023 as Canada’s Special Representative on Combating Islamophobia.

Racial Justice in Justice: South Asian Legal Clinic of Ontario (SALC0)

This legal clinic supports low-income South Asian people in Canada.

The funds raised from the Awards night will be going toward the work of the Diversity Youth Fellowship Program. This innovative and creative program is directly involved in enabling racialized youth to get paid experience working in municipal governments and at various public policy making organizations across Canada.

The performers at the event included: Katheen Zaragosa (a Filipino music performer), Rithika Jeristus & Maya Jeristus (Bharatanatyam dancers) and Yasmin Said (spoken word artist)

UARR is looking forward to its 50th anniversary celebrations in 2025 and shared five of its strategic priorities for the next 10 years including:

  • Employment and economic opportunity: The goal is to foster inclusive workspaces and economic opportunities.
  • Education: The goal is to promote racial equity in education and research.
  • Communication: The goal is to expand public awareness and reach to amplify our stories.
  • Community engagement and outreach: The goal is building community capacity and convening towards change.
  • Truth and reconciliation-relationship building and supporting calls to action. The goal is to strengthen our solidarity and action towards truth and reconciliation.

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What is it about those short videos that keep us captivated? Oh! Yes! Our short attention span

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BY KAHA GEDI

As our attention spans decrease, short form videos are becoming more popular. From TikTok, to YouTube Shorts, to Instagram Reels, these “snack sized” videos have positive qualities alongside the bad. Mainly we want to know what makes them so effective, and why are they becoming the go-to choice for both viewers and marketers? In this article, I will be discussing how these videos have received such popularity worldwide.

First, we need to understand what counts as and what is short-form content. According to blog.hubspot.com, “Short-form videos are videos that are less than 60 seconds long.” However, some marketers and content creators agree that short-form videos can be up to 3 minutes. “They are videos that deliver information in a ‘digestible’ format so that viewers can quickly watch and save content if they’re in a hurry or enjoy it.” Now, I’ll talk about the main reasons why these videos are so popular.

First, our attention spans have gone down exponentially. Dr Gloria Mark has written a book called “Attention Span,” and she says her research indicates people’s attention spans have been shrinking over the last 20 years. According to the same article Dr. Mark said that “Back in 2004, we found the average attention span on any screen to be two and a half minutes on average. Throughout the years, it became shorter. So, around 2012, we found it to be 75 seconds. Then in the last five, six years, we found it to average about 47 seconds.” So, it’s notable that our attention spans started out longer but then decreased over time.

Secondly, these videos have become cheaper and easier to make. Unlike long-form videos, which require extensive: planning, editing, and storytelling, short-form videos are simpler. To the point where they can even be shot on a smartphone. For example, DuoLingo, the app that helps learn new languages, went viral on TikTok a long time ago by posting funny, low-budget videos that resonate with millions. Like a video of a DuoLingo plus being: tossed down the stairs, sitting outside on a rainy day, or being soaked by the shower with the title “When you ignore my notifications.”

Lastly, they provide valuable information in a short amount of time, and they are easily accessible. According to a recent Adobe Survey, two in five Americans use TikTok as a search engine, and nearly one in 10 Gen Zeers are more likely to rely on TikTok than Google as a search engine. This isn’t always reliable for real news because anyone can claim to be an expert, and you wouldn’t know if they’re telling the truth. So, even though they give valuable information in a short time, they can also give misinformation or mislead you.

Short-form videos have changed how we watch and learn things. They fit our short attention spans, are easy to make, and share information quickly. Even though they’re fun and helpful, they can also spread false information or leave out important details. Even with these problems, short-form videos are here to stay, so we should use them in proportion, but also enjoy the benefits.

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Dr. Edward McInnis on the Importance of Preventive Care in Family Medicine

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Preventive care is a cornerstone of modern healthcare, emphasizing the importance of addressing potential health concerns before they escalate into severe conditions. By focusing on proactive measures such as regular screenings, vaccinations, and lifestyle counseling, preventive care offers individuals and communities the opportunity to achieve long-term wellness.

Below, Edward McInnis highlights the transformative potential of prevention in reducing healthcare disparities, alleviating systemic challenges, and ensuring that every individual has the tools and access needed to lead a healthier life.

Understanding Preventive Care in Family Medicine

Preventive care in family medicine focuses on proactive measures to maintain health and prevent illness before it occurs. This approach emphasizes regular health evaluations, screenings, and interventions that identify potential issues early, reducing the likelihood of severe complications. Preventive care fosters long-term well-being by addressing risk factors and promoting healthier lifestyles while minimizing the burden of chronic diseases.

The philosophy behind preventive care aligns with the idea that staying healthy is more effective and less costly than treating illnesses after they arise. Early detection of conditions such as hypertension or high cholesterol allows patients and physicians to manage these issues effectively, preventing them from escalating into more severe health problems. Beyond individual benefits, this care model contributes to healthier communities by reducing the overall demand for healthcare systems.

Benefits of Preventive Care for Individuals and Communities

Preventive care profoundly impacts individuals and the broader community by addressing potential health concerns before they evolve into severe conditions. Early detection through routine screenings can significantly lower the risk of chronic illnesses such as diabetes, heart disease, and certain cancers. This improves individual health outcomes and reduces the emotional and financial toll of managing advanced diseases.

Communities prioritizing preventive care experience a ripple effect of healthier populations and reduced strain on healthcare resources. When more people engage in regular check-ups and adopt healthier habits, the prevalence of preventable conditions drops, creating a collective benefit. Individuals who invest in their health through preventive measures often enjoy longer, more active lives, positively influencing families, workplaces, and society.

The economic advantages of preventive care are undeniable, as early intervention typically costs far less than treating advanced illnesses. Vaccination programs, such as those targeting seasonal flu or childhood diseases, can drastically curb outbreaks, saving lives and reducing medical expenses. These benefits demonstrate how preventive care is a cornerstone of sustainable and effective healthcare systems.

Core Preventive Services in Family Medicine

Family medicine emphasizes various preventive services designed to address health needs across all stages of life. Regular health screenings, such as blood pressure and cholesterol checks, are critical in identifying silent health risks. These assessments provide actionable insights that allow individuals to make timely adjustments to their lifestyles or begin treatment when necessary.

Vaccinations are another cornerstone of preventive care, protecting individuals and communities from infectious diseases. From childhood immunizations to seasonal flu shots, these interventions safeguard personal health and prevent the spread of illnesses within larger populations. Counseling services, including guidance on nutrition, exercise, and stress management, empower patients to take an active role in their long-term well-being.

The Role of Family Physicians in Prevention

Family physicians play a pivotal role in fostering preventive care through their ability to build lasting, trust-based relationships with patients. These relationships enable them to understand not just medical histories but also lifestyle factors, family dynamics, and social determinants of health. This comprehensive knowledge allows physicians to craft personalized preventive strategies that resonate with each patient’s unique circumstances, ensuring a more practical approach to maintaining health.

Beyond individual care, family physicians act as educators, equipping patients with the knowledge to make informed health decisions. Whether discussing the significance of regular screenings or addressing misconceptions about vaccines, their guidance helps patients take ownership of their health.

The continuity of care provided by family physicians also ensures that preventive measures are consistently monitored and adjusted as needed, fostering long-term well-being. Their ability to provide holistic and deeply personalized care sets the foundation for healthier patients and communities.

Challenges in Accessing Preventive Care

Despite its proven benefits, accessing preventive care remains challenging for many individuals and communities. Financial barriers, such as lack of insurance coverage or high out-of-pocket costs, often deter people from seeking preventive services. Additionally, limited awareness about the importance of early detection and health promotion means that some individuals may only prioritize preventive care once a health issue becomes severe.

Geographical disparities also play a significant role in limiting access. Rural and underserved areas frequently face shortages of healthcare providers, making it difficult for residents to receive consistent preventive services. In such regions, innovative approaches like mobile health clinics and telemedicine have emerged as solutions to bridge the gap. Expanding these efforts could help overcome logistical obstacles and ensure that preventive care reaches those most in need.

Cultural factors and mistrust of the healthcare system can further complicate access to preventive services. Addressing these challenges requires a multifaceted approach that includes community engagement, culturally sensitive care, and efforts to build trust between healthcare providers and patients. Strengthening health literacy and facilitating dialogue between healthcare institutions and the communities they serve are also critical steps in overcoming these barriers.

Promoting and Advancing Preventive Care

Advancing preventive care depends on raising awareness and fostering a culture that values proactive health management. Educational campaigns, workplace wellness programs, and school-based health initiatives encourage people to adopt preventive practices. These efforts create an environment where individuals feel empowered to prioritize their well-being, leading to healthier lifestyles and earlier intervention.

The integration of technology is revolutionizing how preventive care is delivered. Wearable devices that track physical activity, heart rate, and sleep patterns provide individuals with real-time data about their health, prompting timely action when irregularities arise. Similarly, data analytics and predictive tools enable healthcare providers to identify at-risk populations and deliver targeted interventions, improving outcomes on a broader scale.

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