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Brenda Foreman Honourable Consulate for St Kitts & Nevis, aka “The Environmental Stylist!”

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BY SIMONE J. SMITH

Here she was stuck in an elevator with a stranger when all she wanted to do was go home, lie on the couch, drink her Guinness, and read a book.

Her daughters were with their father for the evening, and her soul was aching; it had been a rough few years for Brenda, but she was doing what she could to navigate the challenges life had placed in her path.

The storm was at full tilt, and the 10-12 minutes she had been in the elevator felt like hours. What she didn’t realize at the time was that being stuck in that elevator is the reason that she was still alive…

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Business leader, lecturer, publisher, award-winning community activist, educator; adjectives and accolades to describe one of the most incomprehensibly positive and optimistic people I have ever met. For our Woman Empowered, every day is a beautiful day to be alive, and that is not to say that she doesn’t or hasn’t experienced suffering, loss and disappointment.

I have observed her over the years use her brilliant mind to create unprecedented success and growth for young women in the Greater Toronto Area, utilizing her power to activate the power within others. She is passionate about building others up, as well as creating resilience in herself and her daughters. What I am most moved by is her ability to turn her uncanny near-death experience into a platform for empowerment that resonates within the soul of anyone who hears her story. She is truly an outstanding vessel of love.

Brenda Foreman has had a notable trajectory expanding over 20 years in St. Kitts and Nevis and the Toronto Greater Area. Throughout her career, she has worked extensively with multinational private and public companies, leading strategic programs in corporate identity, positioning and representation.

As CEO of her Toronto-based consulting firm, Brenda has left her mark on the social and cultural spheres of Toronto’s Caribbean and African communities. Her dynamic and charitable approach to community service has landed her on multiple executive boards and advisory committees dedicated to the advocacy of: political rights, the advancement of economic and social welfare, and the promotion of Afrocentric art and black creators.

In the Federation, The Honourable Brenda Foreman has managed independent projects that supported efforts for women and youth empowerment and worked collaboratively with the Ministry of Culture to curate programs that benefited workers employed in the cultural industry. Having attended the Cayon High School, she has been an active member of her graduate group, continuously fundraising to support the local schools of her parish.

From the day I met her it was instantaneous. Her energy was undeniable, and our discussions flowed easily. It was a no-brainer for the Toronto Caribbean Newspaper to want her to be the last Woman Empowered of 2022, because she brings to the table what many only wish they could, and she does it humbly, with grace, and with style unmatched by any woman in the GTA.

Yeah, I said it and I have receipts.

Despite her busy schedule, Brenda lent me her time, and opened up like she has never done before, “I was born and raised partially in St. Kitts and Nevis, and moved to Canada when I was 12,” Brenda began. “I was a quiet book worm, and an only child at the time. I lived with extended family, and everyone in our small community told me that I took a lot after my grandmother, which made sense because she helped to raise me.

One thing that I remember about my grandmother was that she was a serial entrepreneur. She was a field labourer, and she grew: yam, dasheen, and bananas, all which she would go to the market and sell. On top of that, she would make things and sell them to children who went to school across the street. She was always working, and it hurt when she died. I was 33 years old, so thankfully, I did have that time with her.”

Brenda shares with me that she used to read a lot. The librarian would call her when there were new books, and Brenda flew through those effortlessly.

“When I read, I felt like I was traveling the world. I was doing all of this in my mind. My father lived in Canada, and when the opportunity arose, I decided that I wanted to live in Canada.

Moving to Canada was the hardest thing that I have ever done. I couldn’t understand the language, so I was put back in school. I eventually caught up, but it took me a minute. I started playing basketball and running track. The hardest part of the transition was dealing with winter; it was not fun, but I started to deal with it.

I was in a Catholic school in high school, and there were only 10 Black children attending at the time. From the moment I landed in Canada I was working, and I left home at 17 years old. It was in college that I began experimenting with my life. Back then I had a baldhead, but this made me exotic looking. One day I went to a casting call with a girlfriend, and when the casters saw me, they asked me if I wanted to model. Just like that I was the bald girl walking down the runway with all these other blond-haired women.”

Brenda was working full time at 22, 23 years old. Most of the jobs that she had were created for her. She started outfitting people at a store called Giorgio. Once a season women would come in, and she would put together their wardrobe. Brenda went through great lengths to thoroughly understand her clients in order to craft their wardrobe, allowing them to leave confident with the purchases they had made.

“I would be honest with them, and the women started to trust me. I began to take care of the owner’s books, then I became a buyer next, and this was only because the buyer got sick. I learned the European lifestyle working there. During this time, I was working at Bell Canada, in addition to the freelance modelling jobs that I picked up.”

It was at this point that Brenda opened up and shared some of her most painful experiences with me. When you have survived an extremely upsetting event, it can be painful to revisit the memory. Many of us would prefer not to talk about it, and how we decide to share our trauma memories is a very personal choice. We have to choose carefully those we entrust with this part of ourselves.

Revisiting a traumatic memory can be very upsetting, triggering strong emotional and physical reactions and even flashbacks to the event. Those reactions can stay in place for years if we have unprocessed traumatic memories, especially when we’re trying to avoid thinking about the trauma. Brenda bravely shared some of those stories with me, and I respectfully have decided that some of those are for her to share, but there was one that stuck out to me…

“I settled down and had children, and went through a tumultuous time. I lost everything. It was a very tough time for me. Thankfully, I had great people in my life, and it allowed me to get back on my feet. My daughters were five, and two years old at the time, and I remember that there were times that I was literally counting my pennies. What the hell? How did I go from having so much to having barely enough to feed my daughters and myself?”

Here is where we can pick up from the story I started earlier. That night of the storm was not a good night for Brenda. She had just gone through a painful life experience, and she wanted to drown her sorrows in a good book, alone. When she finally got out of the elevator, she entered her apartment only to see that the wind had blown the window out, and shards of glass were embedded in the very same couch that she had planned to lounge on for the night.

“All I could think of was, what if I had not been stuck in the elevator? I would have been severely injured or even dead. Right there and then, I realized that I had to use the pain that I was experiencing to help other women.”

Brenda has combined style with empowerment, and has been dubbed “The Environmental Stylist,” because of her ability to style with recycled clothing.

“I started working with a women’s program (Up with Women) that got donations from upscale businesswomen. I would help women put together their clothes after they completed the program.”

Many trauma survivors I’ve worked with described the strength they found as they faced their trauma and told their story. They said they felt like they could face anything, as they saw their fear lessen and found greater freedom in their lives. It takes courage to tell your story, and Brenda’s vision and creativity is a force to be reckoned with and makes her a woman who the world needs to know.

We, as humans are guaranteed certain things in life: stressors, taxes, bills and death are the first thoughts that pop to mind. It is not uncommon that many people find a hard time dealing with these daily life stressors, and at times will find themselves losing control over their lives. Simone Jennifer Smith’s great passion is using the gifts that have been given to her, to help educate her clients on how to live meaningful lives. The Hear to Help Team consists of powerfully motivated individuals, who like Simone, see that there is a need in this world; a need for real connection. As the founder and Director of Hear 2 Help, Simone leads a team that goes out into the community day to day, servicing families with their educational, legal and mental health needs.Her dedication shows in her Toronto Caribbean newspaper articles, and in her role as a host on the TCN TV Network.

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Hmmm! It is clear that the picture of this exodus out of Canada is complex

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BY SIMONE J. SMITH

Canada! A land of dreams, they say. A place where anyone can make it, no matter where they come from. For my immigrant readers: do you remember the day you first heard about Canada? The hope, the excitement. You were willing to risk it all. To leave behind everything you know, to chase a dream. Canada, here I come!

“These are tradespeople who build our homes, nurses who care for our loved ones, truckers who facilitate commerce, and entrepreneurs who spur innovation,” said ICC CEO Daniel Bernhard. “They are increasingly headed out the door.”

A new report from the Institute for Canadian Citizenship (ICC), conducted by the Conference Board of Canada shows that immigrants are leaving Canada in record numbers, particularly the high-skilled immigrants Canada urgently needs.

Bernhard notes that the concerning findings of the report, entitled, “The Leaky Bucket 2024: A closer look at immigrant onward migration in Canada,” coincide with 30-year lows in public support for immigration.

“Canadians are bombarded with commentary telling them that high immigration levels are to blame for homegrown challenges including housing supply, inaccessible healthcare, crime, and even traffic,” said Bernhard. “Be careful what you wish for. This is globally coveted talent with global options. We need programs that entice them to stay, become active citizens and help fuel our economy.”

ICC’s first “Leaky Bucket” report was released in 2023, produced by the Conference Board of Canada. That original study revealed the alarming trend of immigrants leaving Canada in growing numbers to seek opportunity elsewhere. The 2024 report provides updated figures and digs deeper into the characteristics of those immigrants who are leaving in greater and greater numbers. Highlights of the findings include:

  • Francophone immigrants to Quebec and Ontario are much more likely than Anglophone immigrants to leave Canada to seek opportunity elsewhere.
  • The most populous cities in Canada—Montreal, Toronto and Vancouver— see high turnover rates of immigrants. They function as hubs for immigrant communities to access resources and support for their settlement journey.
  • In contrast, fast-growing, mid-sized cities in other provinces (Calgary, Alberta, Halifax, Nova Scotia and Moncton, New Brunswick) see the opposite trend, but have potentially greater challenges retaining immigrants in communities outside of their larger cities.
  • The Atlantic provinces see the highest rates of onward migration in Canada in the shorter term (three to seven years after arrival), but the lowest rates longer term (25 years and more after arrival).
  • The highest two origin nations of immigrants leaving Canada are a combination of countries allowing dual citizenship (Lebanon) and those restricting citizenship only to that country (South Korea).

The report includes recommendations to help stem the outward flow of newcomers, such as:

  • Support provinces and municipalities to understand onward migration trends and address unique challenges in their cities and regions.
  • Develop short-term and long-term strategies to address retention challenges at different points in immigrants’ settlement journeys.
  • Engage educational institutions and settlement service organizations in the retention conversation.

Hmmm! It is clear that the picture of this exodus out of Canada is complex. From rising costs of living and housing to a sense of economic stagnation and political dissatisfaction, there are numerous factors at play.

Now, I want to ask the question. Why do you think people are choosing to leave Canada? What do you believe we, as a nation, are missing? Share your thoughts and insights in the comments below. Let’s spark a conversation and work together to find solutions that will keep Canada a vibrant and prosperous home for all.

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Mister International Canada crowns its 2024 Winner

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BY SIDNEY WALCOTT

Canada is now set to be represented at the 16th Annual Mister International Pageant after recently crowning its 2024 winner.

On November 23rd, 2024, the Canadian leg of the Mister International competition concluded at the Monte Carlo Inn in Mississauga. The 11 finalists took to the runway in the Canadian finale of the competition to show they have what it takes to be crowned Mister International Canada.

Before the start and throughout the show in between segments, Victor Sax welcomed: relatives, friends, and partners of the contestants into the room by playing a medley of well-known hits on the saxophone. Can’t Help Falling in Love by Elvis Presley, You Should Love Yourself by Justin Bieber, Heal The World by Michael Jackson, Señorita by Shawn Mendes and Camilla Cabello, Sensational by Chris Brown, and Water by Tyla, were just some of the handful of hits Sax serenaded the audience with.

Along with being entertained by saxophone covers of beloved hits, the audience also saw both male and female models, along with the pageant participants working the runway in pieces designed by local designers.

The final 11 contestants strutting down the runway in swimwear marked the start of the pageant. The second part featured the finalists wearing androgynous wear, and the last category involved the contestants partaking in a brief interview. In the last segment, each judge pulled a question out of a bowl regarding how they would use their platform as Mister International Canada to help contribute to make positive changes around the world. The judges gave each contestant one minute to answer the selected question.

This segment proved to be the most intriguing part of the show, as the contestants gave informative answers on how they would address a variety of issues. Many of the subjects touched on include: the gender pay gap issue, bringing a global issue they would like to advocate for to the United Nations, job security, the responsibilities wealthy nations hold in addressing the climate change issue in developing countries, social media’s role in being a powerful tool for global politics, how one can use fashion and style to reflect their identity, and how men can support the change in traditional gender roles.

The show ended with Pourang Ataei being announced as Mister International Canada 2024. Ataei will move onto the final and big leg of the competition, Mister International, in Bangkok, Thailand. There, he will compete against over 40 national winners from other countries across the globe. Viewers can look forward to watching the show as a live broadcast on The Mister International YouTube channel on December 14th, 2024.

The contestants will arrive in Bangkok almost two weeks prior to the competition on December 5th, and head back home the day after the competition wraps up on December 15th, 2024. Before the competition, the contestants will connect with the people and the culture of Thailand through activities organized by local sponsors in extensively documented photo and video content.

The Mister International Competition started in 2006 and is one of the world’s most esteemed male pageants recognized for celebrating leadership and diversity.

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America will become the world’s largest and most powerful mercenary force

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BY STEVEN KASZAB

Oh, America how you have changed. Once you welcomed everyone to your shores, allowing them the privilege to make a new life for themselves. America grew into a wondrous place, where man and machine conquered the landscape and your efforts fed the world and the nation as a whole, where poverty, or wealth did not make the man, but hard honest work and a lot of good luck did as planned. Americans travelled from the East Coast to Western ranges, establishing a national dream that most everyone could claim was theirs as well. That was the myth, the story be told to your children, that they too can be a President one day, both to rule, inspire and protect others as claimed.

The pathway to success was paved with the hard work, dreams and efforts put forth by people who were known someplace else as peasants, different and unwanted, only to become Americans. Many were blessed with success, while others fell to their knee’s unsuccessfully trying to better themselves but were able to rise again because of the assistance of others, their neighbors, community and yes because of their dreams to become something better, something American.

The election is past (2024) after a vicious year of politicking you have elected someone to be your leader, inspiration and initiator of change. A leader, an inspiration of sorts, a tool of change perhaps. We all need to wait for the boot to drop and the policies to be enacted at last to know whether this man was truly what America needed in this time and place.

Look to the past in order to recognize the future to come. Your President Elect has told you his plans, plans that would make America Great Again.

Kick out all illegal migrants no matter how long they have lived in America, no matter what they have achieved for: themselves, their families and community, no matter what they have given to America.

A Cabinet of “Yes men and women” whose sole purpose is to protect the President from his past, present and future deeds and make money for themselves in any way possible. A Cabinet of change perhaps, if you believe: corruption, extortion, land grabs, uncontrolled harvesting of America’s natural resources is positive national change? A cabinet full of people just like their leader, the President.

America will become the world’s largest and most powerful mercenary force. No longer will America have allies, but customers. American troops will be sent to global stations to protect others property, or fight their wars, and America will be paid for it. The military will grow, more American servicemen will die on foreign soil, and the military complex will have undue influence upon your leadership.

National services, policies will relent to State Decision making. A simpler National Government will rise leaving all issues both social, political and financial in the States hands. Issues of social concern will no longer influence those in Washington D.C. but be the purview of local governments.

A.I. will rule the online and media waves, artificially transposing government policy into the lives of every American. Why? To control, manipulate and financially profit off the American Public’s trust in high tech. The American Constitution will be stretched beyond its meaning, as a central government carries on business beholding to big corporations and their naughty goals. If America is not careful, big business will become big government, and we all know just how socially aware corporations are to the needs of our: families, communities and nation as a whole (not at all).

The future presents to you four more years of political and social entertainment in your capital, state legislatures and in most of your public spaces. Lobbyists will rule the back rooms of the capital. The pigs at the trough are your elected officials my friend, and America elected them. America can be great again if it returned its attention to what the Founding fathers hoped and wished for America.

“Freedom for All” is not a selective thing friends, but specifically all inclusive. That means those born in America, who migrated to America and are attempting to become Americans through thick, or thin efforts are one and the same. If you cannot see those friends, you’re already lost to the: lies, promises and propaganda of your present-day President Elect and his clan of opportunists.

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