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BY KATHY MCDONALD

I must admit that I had to rewrite my entire column as I was so convinced that common sense would prevail and that the President Elect of the United States of America would be Hillary Rodham Clinton. But as we say in Jamaica “Common sense not so common”. I thought that given the racists and misogynist rants, the fact that Trump constantly berated minorities, the disabled and anyone that did not meet his standards of beauty, his tendency to be so arrogant and the abundance of allegations of fraud coupled with his blatant lies; there was no way he could be elected. I kept saying to everyone. Trump will be trumped. I said this even though the polls, the pundits, my friends and colleagues were saying he could win. Deep down I knew that Trump could win but I kept saying that he would not. This was probably my mechanism of coping with the brouhaha surrounding the past months.

I equate this experience to being in a loveless marriage that one stays for the “good of the children”. You know deep down that you spouse is disingenuous and his family and friends know this too but you stay. You cope by being in a constant state of denial. “When my last child left home that’s when I physically left” Jane (not her real name) said about ending her thirty-seven-year marriage. Coming home late after our bi-weekly meeting at the Peel District School Board, I rushed to the TV where my husband was watching CNN, when he stated “It does not look good”. Around 1o’clock we lost hope and went to bed. We heard the results when we woke up. A flood of emotions rushed through my being. My brilliant eight-year-old daughter came running into our bedroom on October 9th saying “Mommy they made a mistake they announced the wrong name” She was so confident that it was a huge mistake. Her enthusiasm quickly turned to despair as her trademark smile was transformed to a frown when I told her “It’s not a mistake sweetie”. Even my eight-year-old understood the negative implications of a Trump presidency. Forget for a moment things like the stock markets and other financial indicators just think of our children. There are so many anxious children in America, Canada and quite frankly the world.

The importance of educating the populous cannot be lost in this election. The necessity of capitalizing on the opportunity to engage your children in dialogue and critical thinking exercises should not be ignored. I would encourage parents to use this time as an opportunity to have uplifting and in-depth discussions and debates with your children. There is so much fodder that this whole process provided for family time talks. Never underestimate the power of these young vibrant minds, especially in a wired world. Young children are exposed to a constant bombardment of information and they often benefit greatly from healthy discussions. A lot of the information can be quite frightening and confusing. The children know that this election is important and that the impact can be far reaching. There are innumerable topics that could spur enlightening discussions: why do you think Trump’s negative campaign was so effective?, is racism on the rise and civility on the decline?, the differences and nuances between glaring lies, hyperbole and propaganda, women and the glass ceiling,  privilege and power, body image and its connection to one’s self-concept and self-worth, immigration and the immigrant; the power and importance of the Black vote, one’s civic duty to vote regardless of race or ethnicity; the electoral college and the individual ballot to name a few.

Never underestimate the power of hate, ignorance and propaganda. Trump in his “astuteness” tapped into the frustrations of the middleclass. Middle class people in America, in fact all over the world are fed up of seeing the rich top 1% in society doing remarkably well while the they are living pay cheque to pay cheque. In most cases, they are worse off than they were ten years ago. We saw this in the UK where the citizens voted in a referendum to exit the European Union. We see in America that the immigrant is being targeted as one of the reasons that middle white America is not thriving. Trump played on people’s biases and hopelessness to fuel a campaign with a racist slant. There is great similarity to this and the rhetoric of Hitler and Mussolini. I would encourage parents to examine some of these observations and linkages with your children especially older children. This is an ideal time to speak about social justice, racism and prejudice.

For the record, I was right about one thing you have more descent people than “deplorables” in America. Hillary Clinton won the popular vote. She received more individual votes than Trump even though she got less electoral votes. I too like Seth Myers have been so wrong about everything regarding Donald Trump. I can only hope that I am wrong about his ability to lead. I sincerely hope that the leader of the most powerful and influential nation on earth is not the xenophobic, misogynistic, impulsive, racist narcissist that I think he is. So, as we wait and see what path the journey will take in the future…. Walk Good. Belle Marché.

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Understanding the multiple layers involved in navigating education spaces Parents of Black Children launch Navigating the Education System

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BY PAUL JUNOR

The work of the advocacy group Parents of Black Children (PoBC) has made a significant and revolutionary difference by bringing issues to the forefront that help Black families at all levels.

For over two years now, it has organized events, workshops and initiatives that have provided important information to the Black community to bring empowerment, knowledge and deep understanding of the multiple layers of the complex dynamics involved in navigating education spaces.

There are five core principles that underlie PoBC understanding of racism:

  1. Racialization
  2. Racism is about power
  3. Critical racial theory
  4. Our stories matter
  5. Racism is founded on White supremacy

On Tuesday, November 23rd, 2021, they launched the document Navigating the Education System,” which was a very empowering, enriching and inspiring tool for diverse Black families. Kearie Daniels, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author of the document, moderated the launch. Furthermore, Claudette Rutherford, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author gave an extensive presentation of the details of the document, sharing useful insights, practical knowledge and interesting information.

PoBC shared a pdf document subsequent to the launch, which provided additional details in a fifty-three-page package. It contained relevant, contextual and vital resources. PoBC’s Advocacy Team supported the document, which includes Charline Grant and Xavier McLaughin.

In the introduction to the document the mission of PoBC is to “Provide support to parents of Black children across Canada and the United States. We advocate and work towards change and concrete action in our education system and adjacent systems such child welfare and the justice system.”

The launch of this vital document is a culmination of all the advocacy and activist work that PoBC has been extensively involved in. It serves to remind members of the Black community that there are resources, tools and supports available to ensure that Black children are able to thrive academically, excel mentally and flourish intellectually in spaces that may not be welcoming to their presence.

The document states that the navigate guide is “Geared towards families in Ontario, but the information can be applied to any jurisdiction where there are Black children and families.”

The document “Table of Contents” is useful and helpful. There is vital information on:

  • School board terms you need to know
  • Education organization you need to know in Ontario
  • Black families and the Child Welfare System
  • Black families and the education system
  • Black students and Individual Education Plans (IEPs)
  • Black students in High School.
  • Developmental delays in learning exceptionalities
  • Supporting students with learning exceptionalities
  • Selecting a school system
  • System abuse

PoBC presented a webinar on “System Abuse”. The document states,

“The system is not neutral. These systems were designed as part of a colonial framework that must be dismantled.” Furthermore, the document “Serves as a means to demystify the pitfalls within the education system and light a path towards a decolonized education system.”

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Toronto prepares families for COVID-19 vaccination of children

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BY PAUL JUNOR

There have been concerns, fears and anxieties as parents, caregivers and guardians anticipate the possibility of having their children under twelve vaccinated.

The Boston Globe reported on Friday, October 29th, 2021, that the FDA approved the administration of Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine to children between the ages of five to eleven. These children will receive one-third of the dose administered to teens and adults.

The Centres for Disease Control and Prevention met on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2021, in order to finalize details with respect to which children should be vaccinated first. In anticipation of these developments, Team Toronto has initiated a series of outreach and education sessions, as well as town halls in order to inform the Toronto community.

Parents of children between the ages of five to eleven who attend public schools will be receiving an email and an invitation to respond to a survey to “Support vaccine planning.”  This invitation will also be extended to parents whose children attend private independent schools as well. The survey will be administered by Toronto Public Health (TPH) and the City of Toronto VaxTO in order to “Better understand parents’ intent to vaccinate their children, how they would prefer to have their children receive their COVID-19 vaccine, and to obtain critical information on socio-demographic factors such as race and income.”

John Tory, Mayor of Toronto, is optimistic and positive about this development. He states in the press release, “While our work to get 90% of eligible residents vaccinated is continuing, we are also readying for when the vaccine will be available to protect kids five to eleven. We want to hear from parents, so we made sure we designed a vaccination program that works for kids and their families. This is just one more example of the outreach we are doing to prepare for this effort. This work is so important and will help us get kids vaccinated so they have the best protection against COVID-19 and so our schools can be as safe and as open as possible.”

Councillor Joe Cressy, Chair of Toronto’s Board of Health who has been at the forefront of advocating for the vaccination of margnizalied and at-risk communities is supportive of this campaign. He states, “At every stage of our immunization campaign, connecting with people on the ground has been critical to our success. Now, as we prepare for the rollout of vaccines to children aged five to eleven, we’re committed to engaging directly with parents, families, and community leaders to have active conversations about vaccinations for kids.”

In addition, Dr Eileen De Villa, Toronto’s Medical Officer of Health is a strong proponent of this campaign. She states,” When vaccines are approved for use and when we have supply we will ensure that we bring every resource to bear on this critical component of the vaccination campaign.”

The survey will be available as of Sunday, November 7th, 2021. It consists of fifteen questions that will be available online at s.tphsurvey.chkmkt.com in multiple languages. Parents and guardians will receive them from their children’s public school boards. In addition, there will be town halls for specified multilingual communities as well as neighbourhood-based telephone halls to ensure that the public has access to timely, necessary and relevant information for informed decision-making.

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Act as if what you do makes a difference. IT DOES

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BY SABRINA S. – 12 YEARS OLD

The school year is coming to an end, I’m sure that this year was hectic for everyone. Last year, we had a pandemic strike in the middle of the year and the world was sent into lockdown.

We didn’t get to go to school for the rest of the year.

Many students got to choose if they wanted to do school in-person or online, I chose online since I didn’t feel safe.

First day of school was very weird, most people don’t turn their cameras on, don’t even get me started on the wifi issues. I would lag out of the google meet many times and miss most of the instructions on the assignment. That is when friends come in handy, though I don’t get to see my friends that often, we still connect with some online games and phone calls through snap chat.

I don’t know where the time went, it just flew by. Last month was September and suddenly, I feel like we skipped eight months. I only have a week of school left! Because it is the last week of school, I have a lot of homework and final assignments to do but I know I’ll get through them and finish the school year.

I haven’t had time to go outside as well, I’ve been too busy with my assignments.

If my school year was this hectic, imagine the teacher’s year. I’m very grateful for everything my teachers have done for me and my classmates this year, they definitely deserve the three-month summer break. I’m sure my teachers doubted teaching online, but everything went okay and I learned lots.

“No matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets. I’m going to make it!”

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