Oppression is a state of mind, a psychological formula that manipulates, and distorts the truth

BY STEVEN KASZAB

What does oppression mean? Webster’s dictionary says oppression is “Prolonged (excessive) cruel and unjust treatment or exercising of authority.”

We often think of oppression in a political application, a nation or political group oppressing the people, but “oppression” has real time applications in our daily lives.

Ever see someone raise their hands in anger at a spouse, child, or another person? Do you know someone who is forced to work in poor conditions, being paid very low wages, often having to experience sexual or mental abuse because they really need the job?

Have you met someone who was or is a freedom fighter, someone who fought for their people’s freedom or separation from an oppressive government? A young person who ran away from home because they experienced some form of abuse, and needed to escape it?

Oppression is a state of mind, a psychological formula that manipulates, distorts the truth. It is filled with anger and projects fear upon others. One can begin one’s life developing a connection to this state when you meet your first bully, whether it is a parent, sibling or within a school setting.

If someone’s wishes are forced upon you, it is a form of oppression. The forced wishes can be well intentioned, or not at all. “You’re going to do this, or else,” or “If you cannot do this, you’re a failure and wimp.” Oppression manipulates us, moulds us through its use of psychological and often physical influences. As a child, we are moulded (by parents and teachers) into well-balanced individuals. If you intend to mould someone, and you are mentally or psychologically challenged in some way this will imprint upon the moulded child. Something very simple can over time develop into a severe psychosis and fear that will stay with the child as they age. That is a form of oppression, although it is unintended.

Entire peoples have and are being oppressed by others. It is easier for an oppressor to live with their intended purpose if they believe they are doing good to a lesser people. In Africa, the colonial powers stripped nations of their natural resources while giving them religion, education and structure through the introduction of Christianity and Islam (in the North).

Oppression exists for a reason. While most of us believe that a society living in peace and harmony is ideal, oppressive forces see this as an opportunity. When fear is applied to oppressive tactics, people naturally respond in a submissive manner. All people want is to return to a peaceful situation, and that is what oppressive forces would promise. Do as we say, and nothing will really change for you and your family.

When a couple argue and fight, and a partner harms the other, that is oppression. Why do 55% of American women living in abusive situations return to their partner, often not having the oppressor charged with a crime? They want to return to what was for them a perfect time, when their family loved each other in peace. What many of us do not notice is that those who oppress others, are themselves damaged individuals, organizations or even empires.

Oppression is a noun and adjective. It is, and it does. Oppression is a living, breathing thing, much like a human being. It exists because you allow it too, it spreads due to your fear, ignorance, and apathy. By not recognizing oppressiveness that surrounds you, within your society and lived space, you allow it to flourish and grow, much like the weeds in your garden.

You cannot be a free person if any form of oppression is allowed to exist. That is a challenge not easily dealt with. Oppression brings with it: fear, anger, jealousy, envy and seemingly all the other deadly sins.

How do we defeat oppression? In the words of Nelson Mandela, “Justice can bring about an end to oppression. It is an act of justice, protecting all of our fundamental human rights, the right to dignity and a decent life.” Look at another as if that person was you. How would you like to be treated? (Matthew 22.39) Powerful words found in many of the religion’s most sacred texts. Who in their right mind wants to be oppressed by another?

Living our daily lives demands of us to be cooperative, humble and empathetic to others. It is my hope that the handshake will always win over the widespread raised fist of anger and fear that oppresses millions of us on a daily basis.