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Death and It’s Lessons

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BY: KATHY MCDONALD 

One thing I know for sure is that if I was not advocating for the right of all children to get the education that they are legally entitled to; I would be advocating for victims of domestic violence. Especially children. The death of Riya Rajkumar shook me to the core. Probably because I have a ten-year-old daughter or probably because after getting the amber alert that she was found I sighed a deep sigh of relief, jumped for joy and then went to bed elated that she had been found. You may be wondering at this point, what does this have to do with education? Everything.

Not knowing anything surrounding the demise of this sweet little girl who always has a big bright smile in every picture that I came across, I have one overarching question. How could this have been prevented? How could we have done a better job at educating the family or society to ensure that little Riya would be enjoying the daily adventures of a typical girl from the Peel Region?

The first thing that comes to the minds of people is mental health. I find this perplexing in that in today’s climate we are quick to label every transgression as some sort of mental health issue. It may very well be mental health in this case but what if it’s not? Could it be that someone is simply a mean, wicked and heartless beast simply trying to hurt one human being by destroying another? What if we could teach people about the basic sanctity of life? What about teaching couples that they don’t own their spouses? Oh! and they can walk away. This may be devastating and losing your “soulmate” may hurt but at the end of the day, your “soulmate” is not an indentured servant that belongs to you.

As a society, we need to get back to the basics and we really need to take a hard look at simple things like bringing back civics to all schools and we need to start at an earlier age. Somewhere as a society, we have appeared to stray from the concept of being our brother’s keeper and in this multiculturalism experiment we have forgotten that we are our brother keepers regardless of place of birth. Could neighbours or friends have prevented this? Were there clues and signs that were missed or ignored?

I remember listening to Kamal Dhillon’s story and reading her book and she describes what she perceived as apathy towards her from neighbours. I vividly remember her stating that many of her neighbours would think she was snobbish because she never said hello to them while her “friendly and outgoing” husband would always socialize and say hi to the neighbours. Little did they know that if she dared to crack even the faintest smile, she would be dealt a severe, long and torturous punishment. As a society are we reaching out to our neighbours and friends?

When Riya’s father was committing this heinous act did anybody hear? Were her screams just dismissed as a parent-child conflict? I keep imagining her final moments. I am filled with such confounded sadness for a stranger I never knew just haunted by the confusion buzzing in her mind as her father is killing her. Would having skills in self-defence helped? What about lessons in karate? When people decide to separate should there be a mandatory psychological assessment of all parties to ensure that they won’t harm themselves or their children? I know that these questions may sound bizarre but as I desperately seek to understand how we can prevent such tragedies, I can’t help but think about the importance of education.

As I participate in the planning of the United Achievers’ Club, Celebrity Chef Men Who Cook event on March 2nd at Century Gardens at 6 pm I think of the role of education. Why? This event raises money for the William Osler Health System-Paediatric Department to aid in the care of patients living with Sickle Cell Disease. This disease affects the shape of your red blood cells which results in not enough oxygen being transported throughout the body. As a result a person with sickle cell anemia invariably suffers serious complications from extreme fatigue to heart failure, There is no known cure and patients simply have to try and manage the disease and the effects of flare-ups. Sickle Cell disease is more common in people of African descent and it is a hereditary disease. It is important for our community to educate themselves about this crippling disease.

Less than twenty-four hours of learning about Riya’s fate I got an email informing me of the death of a stalwart of the black community, Dr. Winston Isaac. Among his several varied accomplishments, I will always be thankful for his role in co-founding the Walnut Foundation. This organization is dedicated to black men’s health, the prostate and the importance of the PSA (Prostate Cancer Screening) test. I will soon be reaching the one-year anniversary of my uncle’s death. I am resolute in my belief that he would be here today if he understood the importance of self-care and the PSA test. So, journey with me as we try to educate ourselves to be our brothers and sister keepers as well as we keep our bodies and mind healthy. Walk Good! Belle Marché.

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Understanding the multiple layers involved in navigating education spaces Parents of Black Children launch Navigating the Education System

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BY PAUL JUNOR

The work of the advocacy group Parents of Black Children (PoBC) has made a significant and revolutionary difference by bringing issues to the forefront that help Black families at all levels.

For over two years now, it has organized events, workshops and initiatives that have provided important information to the Black community to bring empowerment, knowledge and deep understanding of the multiple layers of the complex dynamics involved in navigating education spaces.

There are five core principles that underlie PoBC understanding of racism:

  1. Racialization
  2. Racism is about power
  3. Critical racial theory
  4. Our stories matter
  5. Racism is founded on White supremacy

On Tuesday, November 23rd, 2021, they launched the document Navigating the Education System,” which was a very empowering, enriching and inspiring tool for diverse Black families. Kearie Daniels, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author of the document, moderated the launch. Furthermore, Claudette Rutherford, one of the cofounders of PoBC and author gave an extensive presentation of the details of the document, sharing useful insights, practical knowledge and interesting information.

PoBC shared a pdf document subsequent to the launch, which provided additional details in a fifty-three-page package. It contained relevant, contextual and vital resources. PoBC’s Advocacy Team supported the document, which includes Charline Grant and Xavier McLaughin.

In the introduction to the document the mission of PoBC is to “Provide support to parents of Black children across Canada and the United States. We advocate and work towards change and concrete action in our education system and adjacent systems such child welfare and the justice system.”

The launch of this vital document is a culmination of all the advocacy and activist work that PoBC has been extensively involved in. It serves to remind members of the Black community that there are resources, tools and supports available to ensure that Black children are able to thrive academically, excel mentally and flourish intellectually in spaces that may not be welcoming to their presence.

The document states that the navigate guide is “Geared towards families in Ontario, but the information can be applied to any jurisdiction where there are Black children and families.”

The document “Table of Contents” is useful and helpful. There is vital information on:

  • School board terms you need to know
  • Education organization you need to know in Ontario
  • Black families and the Child Welfare System
  • Black families and the education system
  • Black students and Individual Education Plans (IEPs)
  • Black students in High School.
  • Developmental delays in learning exceptionalities
  • Supporting students with learning exceptionalities
  • Selecting a school system
  • System abuse

PoBC presented a webinar on “System Abuse”. The document states,

“The system is not neutral. These systems were designed as part of a colonial framework that must be dismantled.” Furthermore, the document “Serves as a means to demystify the pitfalls within the education system and light a path towards a decolonized education system.”

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Toronto prepares families for COVID-19 vaccination of children

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BY PAUL JUNOR

There have been concerns, fears and anxieties as parents, caregivers and guardians anticipate the possibility of having their children under twelve vaccinated.

The Boston Globe reported on Friday, October 29th, 2021, that the FDA approved the administration of Pfizer COVID-19 vaccine to children between the ages of five to eleven. These children will receive one-third of the dose administered to teens and adults.

The Centres for Disease Control and Prevention met on Tuesday, November 2nd, 2021, in order to finalize details with respect to which children should be vaccinated first. In anticipation of these developments, Team Toronto has initiated a series of outreach and education sessions, as well as town halls in order to inform the Toronto community.

Parents of children between the ages of five to eleven who attend public schools will be receiving an email and an invitation to respond to a survey to “Support vaccine planning.”  This invitation will also be extended to parents whose children attend private independent schools as well. The survey will be administered by Toronto Public Health (TPH) and the City of Toronto VaxTO in order to “Better understand parents’ intent to vaccinate their children, how they would prefer to have their children receive their COVID-19 vaccine, and to obtain critical information on socio-demographic factors such as race and income.”

John Tory, Mayor of Toronto, is optimistic and positive about this development. He states in the press release, “While our work to get 90% of eligible residents vaccinated is continuing, we are also readying for when the vaccine will be available to protect kids five to eleven. We want to hear from parents, so we made sure we designed a vaccination program that works for kids and their families. This is just one more example of the outreach we are doing to prepare for this effort. This work is so important and will help us get kids vaccinated so they have the best protection against COVID-19 and so our schools can be as safe and as open as possible.”

Councillor Joe Cressy, Chair of Toronto’s Board of Health who has been at the forefront of advocating for the vaccination of margnizalied and at-risk communities is supportive of this campaign. He states, “At every stage of our immunization campaign, connecting with people on the ground has been critical to our success. Now, as we prepare for the rollout of vaccines to children aged five to eleven, we’re committed to engaging directly with parents, families, and community leaders to have active conversations about vaccinations for kids.”

In addition, Dr Eileen De Villa, Toronto’s Medical Officer of Health is a strong proponent of this campaign. She states,” When vaccines are approved for use and when we have supply we will ensure that we bring every resource to bear on this critical component of the vaccination campaign.”

The survey will be available as of Sunday, November 7th, 2021. It consists of fifteen questions that will be available online at s.tphsurvey.chkmkt.com in multiple languages. Parents and guardians will receive them from their children’s public school boards. In addition, there will be town halls for specified multilingual communities as well as neighbourhood-based telephone halls to ensure that the public has access to timely, necessary and relevant information for informed decision-making.

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Act as if what you do makes a difference. IT DOES

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BY SABRINA S. – 12 YEARS OLD

The school year is coming to an end, I’m sure that this year was hectic for everyone. Last year, we had a pandemic strike in the middle of the year and the world was sent into lockdown.

We didn’t get to go to school for the rest of the year.

Many students got to choose if they wanted to do school in-person or online, I chose online since I didn’t feel safe.

First day of school was very weird, most people don’t turn their cameras on, don’t even get me started on the wifi issues. I would lag out of the google meet many times and miss most of the instructions on the assignment. That is when friends come in handy, though I don’t get to see my friends that often, we still connect with some online games and phone calls through snap chat.

I don’t know where the time went, it just flew by. Last month was September and suddenly, I feel like we skipped eight months. I only have a week of school left! Because it is the last week of school, I have a lot of homework and final assignments to do but I know I’ll get through them and finish the school year.

I haven’t had time to go outside as well, I’ve been too busy with my assignments.

If my school year was this hectic, imagine the teacher’s year. I’m very grateful for everything my teachers have done for me and my classmates this year, they definitely deserve the three-month summer break. I’m sure my teachers doubted teaching online, but everything went okay and I learned lots.

“No matter how hard it is, or how hard it gets. I’m going to make it!”

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