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Mentors at all ages… we all should have one

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By Colleen Lindberg
September 24th 2014 Edition

I run a youth entrepreneurship program and we are at the mentor phase, where they get to integrate a mentor into the program to help them out with different aspects of the business. Some people are choosing ones in the areas they need to focus in i.e.; financial, creative etc., others are choosing mentors that are already successful in their industries and some are choosing mentors completely unrelated to what they do but they really enjoy them and think that they can teach them something. Whatever the motivation is, the goal is to learn from someone who might have more information than you do on certain subjects.

I really believe that we all should have a mentor. No matter how old we are or how long we have been in business, there is always someone that has been doing it longer, has more experience, makes more money or has more time. It might even be that the mentor you would seek has a specific lifestyle where they only work 10 hours a week and you are still working 80 hours a week… Hmm I wonder what you would able to learn from him.

Some mentor stereotypes are that you have to dedicate a lot of time into the relationship. This may be true, but in most cases the mentor is just there as a support sail. It could mean a monthly dinner or lunch, or a quick chat weekly/bi-weekly or monthly. Whichever it is, the relationship is tailored to the needs of the individual and the time commitment can be totally customized as well.

Something to note, I would look high and extend yourself when in search of a mentor. I suggested to these youths that they pick someone in their industry that they want to mimic, that has already had a lot of success doing what they want to be doing. At first they were fearful of this, then I said to them, I will call on your behalf and ask them. This gave them more confidence. So I ask you a question, who would you call or better yet, who are you too scared to call to ask their advice? Then I think that is the person that should be your mentor as you might be able to learn something from them.

Three reasons why you need a mentor
1) They will hold you accountable without them even doing anything. Have you ever heard the saying we will do more for others than we will for ourselves? This is entirely true in this type of scenario. Imagine if you actually asked the person on your “fear” list to mentor you, they said yes and you are meeting for the first time. They give you ideas to get you moving forward a lot quicker and more efficiently and then you have “homework” to do before you meet up again. If this person is a key influencer in your industry you are going to get that work done as our humanness doesn’t want us to fail or look bad in front of others. This mentor, just being connected to you will make you accountable to your goals and most of all to yourself

2) Who do they know that you might be able to be connected to that you couldn’t necessarily get access to before? Now I am not saying that you should be driven by this and make the relationship all about this, but I really feel that when we connect with people, especially if the mentor said yes to helping you that they will really be open to helping you, so that means opening up doors for you as well and introducing you to the people that they know. This could mean some really great things for you.

3) Lastly, what if their success actually rubbed off on you. They say that we are the sum (usually money relations but also in mindset) of the five closest people in our lives. So if you are hanging out with struggling entrepreneurs, then most likely you are a struggling entrepreneur but if you threw a wealthy, successful entrepreneur into the mix that average changes and sometimes we don’t realize what relationships in our lives do to affect us positively and of course negatively. I can also guarantee, on top of so many other things that it will change your confidence. You will start to think of yourself differently and in new ways and most of all in empowering ways.

So if you feel you are still too old, too wealthy, or there’s not enough time to have a mentor, then I can guarantee you there might be other things missing in your whole balanced life. What if they hold the key for you… and maybe the shift will be small, however that small shift could make the biggest impact on your life. Consider it and if it’s still not for you, why don’t you consider becoming a mentor and helping someone else. There are so many different programs around your area that offer the availability for people to get mentors. Take some action, it’s time to mentor it up!

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Jamaica’s Back-to-Back CONCACAF Gold Cup Final Appearances

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Jamaica, a small island in the Caribbean, may not be one of the first countries that come to mind when you think of soccer. However, in recent years, the Reggae Boyz have been making waves. And following the underdog stories unfolding at the current African Cup of Nations, the Jamaicans may well feel that success is just around the corner.

2024 – A Big Year For International Football

In the Ivory Coast this winter, AFCON has been making waves following the stunning early exits of almost every heavy hitter. The likes of Algeria, Tunisia, and Ghana all bowed at the group stage, while Egypt and Morocco followed them in the round of 16.

But it isn’t just Africa that has a continental competition taking place this year. Both the 2024 European Championships and Copa America will take place, tournaments that online sports betting sites have made England and Argentina the favorites to win, respectively. Caribbean involvement will have to wait until next year when the 2025 CONCACAF Gold Cup gets underway, and Jamaica will be hoping to channel their success from years gone by into action.

2015

The 2015 CONCACAF Gold Cup was held in Canada and the United States, with Jamaica competing against some of the best teams from North and Central America. Despite being underdogs in many matches, the Reggae Boyz managed to make it all the way to the final. Inspired by the performances of former Premier League wingers Jobi McAnuff and Gareth McCleary, the Caribbean outfit defeated the highly-rated Costa Rica to top Group B.

That set up a meeting with Haiti in the quarterfinals, and a goal from former Derby County man Giles Barnes was enough to secure a narrow 1-0 victory. In the semifinals, they met a much fancied United States in front of 70,000 raucous fans at the Georgia Dome. But they weren’t intimidated, racing into a two-goal lead before clinging on for dear life in the second half and eventually running out 2-1 victors. Unfortunately, they were ultimately downed 3-1 by Mexico in the final, but not before they had captured the hearts of North America.

2017

Two years later, in 2017, Jamaica once again found themselves in the final of the tournament. This time around they faced the reigning champion Mexicans in the group stage, holding them to a goalless draw. Victories against Curacao and a draw with El Salvador were enough to seal their spot in the knockout round however, they headed into the latter stages as an unfancied side once more.

In the quarterfinals, the Jamaicans duly brushed aside Canada thanks to goals from Shaun Francis and Romario Williams. That set up a meeting with Mexico once again, and this time around, they would have their redemption. Fullback Kemar Lawrence scored the only goal of the game in the 88th minute, leaving El Tri stunned and sealing the Reggae Boyz’ spot in the final.

There, they faced off against the hosting United States at Levi’s Stadium in Santa Clara, California – home of the San Francisco 49ers. The Jamaicans were hoping to repeat their heroics of two years prior and come out on top, however, this time around it was the Stars and Stripes that ran out victorious. With the contest level at one goal apiece, Seattle Sounders striker Jordan Morris popped up with an 88th-minute winner to secure the victory.

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Victim Services of Durham Region invites Ontario schools and youth to Youth Violence Prevention Symposium

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BY PAUL JUNOR

Victim Services of Durham Region (VSDR) is committed to educating and informing young people with the knowledge and education they need to make informed decisions regarding critical issues that affect their lives.

In order to fulfill its mission, it will be hosting its annual online Youth Violence Prevention (YVP) Symposium. It will take place over a two-week period on Monday, February 26th and Friday, March 8th, 2024.It will be geared to Grades: 7, 8 and 9 students who will be able to access it using the online learning platform, Learn Worlds.

VSDR has been active over the years in the Durham Region where it has provided a range of services to help those affected and impacted by crime, or sudden tragedies. It is the only one of its kind that offers specialized services and support 24/7, 365 days per year to these individuals.

Their vision is to have a safe community where people are supported, empowered and thriving. The press release states that they provide trauma-informed, anti-oppressive crisis intervention services, including emotional support, safety planning, and financial assistance. In addition, there are translation services available in over 300 languages to those who need them. Case management services are also available, which assist individuals to bypass bureaucratic roadblocks with available:

subsidized housing, income support, medical and police services.

VSDR provides tailored support to survivors and witnesses of all crimes; 85% of its clients have experienced gender-based violence, including: survivors of intimate partner violence, sexual assault and human trafficking.

Some of the programs VSDR offers are:

  • Crisis Response
  • System Navigation
  • Victim Quick Response Program
  • Human Trafficking Prevention/Intervention
  • Youth Prevention Workshops
  • Professional Training
  • Hotel Staff Training

The symposium will consist of accessible online modules that will be broken down into educational content, specific videos and in-class activities that are grade specific and align with curriculum targets. The six modules per grade are:

  • Consent & Healthy Relationships
  • Human Trafficking
  • Online Safety, Cyber Bullying and Image Sharing
  • Teen Dating Violence
  • Gang Violence & Peer Violence
  • Empowerment & Self-Care

The following are aims of the symposium:

  • Protect and empower young people.
  • Engage with issues like human trafficking, consent, healthy relationship, sextortion, teen dating violence, gang awareness, and cyber safety.
  • Provide insights on vulnerabilities and risk factors through activities and presentations.

Through partnerships with schools and educators it has been possible to:

  • Provide interactive online modules, games and videos.
  • Focus on learning in a safe setting.
  • Information on where to seek support provided on the event day and beyond.

Since 2020, the annual Violence Prevention Symposium has made a significant impact in the lives of young people as its program evolves from just focusing on Anti-Human Trafficking to issues that reflect emerging youth trends.

Some of the Impactful Results are:

  • Youth knowledge increased from 35% to 97%
  • Over 300% decrease in the number of youths educated since 2020
  • 48 disclosures received in 2023 as a result of symposium education.

VSDR is anticipating great things from the 2024 symposium. They will continue to adapt and adjust the programs and services they deliver in light of the changing landscape and rapidly evolving world of teenagers.

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The Caribbean Is becoming like the Wild West: Thanks to the US Gun In Barrel Scheme

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BY MICHAEL THOMAS

While it’s impossible to know how many weapons are successfully smuggled, US investigators admit that the number of guns illegally smuggled into the Caribbean has increased in recent years, and so have violent crimes.

As a Caribbean man, it is not a good feeling to read a report that states that of the 10 countries with the world’s highest homicide rates in 2022, half of them were in the Caribbean.

The gun wars have become so prevalent in the islands now that once relatively quiet islands like the British territory of Turks & Caicos, have seen homicide rates rise by 150% since 2021, according to Insight Crime, a Washington-based research organization that studies organized crime in the Americas.

It is estimated that around 90% of the guns used to commit crimes in the Caribbean are guns bought legally in the U.S., and then smuggled into the Caribbean region.

According to the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms and Explosives, when the guns found at crime scenes are traced to their source; of the 9,000 Caribbean crime guns that were recovered and traced from 2017 to 2021, only 724 had been legally exported from the US, the rest were smuggled into the islands.

The Caribbean homicide rates in 2022 far exceeded US and global averages. Here is a small sample of the gun crimes by Islands when compared to the U.S

The Bahamas 31.2%, Dominican Republic 12.4%, Puerto Rico 17.6%, Antigua & Barbuda 10.7%, Saint Lucia 36.7%, Barbados 15.3%, Saint Vincent and the Grenadines 40.4%, Trinidad and Tobago 39.5%, and Jamaica 53.3% homicide rate per 100,000 population. These figures came from the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime.

As the above figures show, Jamaica now ranks first in the world with an overall homicide rate of about 53 per 100,000, according to the UN. That’s more than eight times that of the US.

Amid all the stats and fancy wording, there is a sad point to be made here. Caribbean leaders say that they have pulled millions from their already small budget to help the U.S. fight their war on drugs and are now looking forward to the U.S. doing the same with the island’s gun problem.

“As we have assisted them in the war on drugs, they must assist us in the war on guns,” Andrew Holness, the Jamaican Prime Minister said.

If the U.S. does not reciprocate, the Caribbean could and might become like Mexico where law enforcement officials estimate that organized criminals who are heavily armed with US-made weapons control a sizable portion of that country’s territory.

Is America complicit in all this? Oh yes. It is well documented how U.S. weapons that are legally exported to other countries and end up in the wrong hands have caused devastation on a massive scale to those importing countries.

Does America care? I digress. Behar, a former ATF agent, recalled a former supervisor’s reaction when he suggested they needed more support for international investigations. He said, “Look, the gun left the US — what the hell do I care about it? It’s not my problem.”

Some officials from the US and Caribbean say the system effectively protects gun dealers and makers from accountability while leading many smuggling investigations to dead ends.

Caribbean leaders who mistakenly keep looking to the U.S. for help with their gun problems at home, need to take a second look at the U.S. and their policies.

According to Graham Husbands, a firearms examiner in Barbados for nearly three decades, “Even by the ATF’s accounting, it’s failing to meet its goal of inspecting each of the country’s 78,000-gun dealers and makers once every three years. The agency reported in 2022 that it would need more than double its inspector ranks to reach that target.”

There is no quick and easy way to solve the gun problem as even the U.S. are now finding out. ATF inspectors showed up to inspect a gun shop in Atlanta but were met by a congressional delegation.

In America’s case, the delegation was only protecting their Second Amendment rights. It is said that these rights were put in place to make sure the public had protection just in case the government decided to turn rogue. Has America’s government gone rogue? That is a subject for another article.

One thing is clear, as Philip Davis, the Prime Minister of the Bahamas, put it last year at a law-enforcement conference, “The right to bear arms in the United States does not mean that there is also a right to traffic those arms to Caribbean countries.”

On the subject of gun crimes in the islands and looking to the U.S. for help. The Island politicians must surely realize by now that “You just do not ask a pussycat if he or she ate the slice of cheese.”

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